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　　Inancientchina，marriagesalwaysarearrangedbyparents。Manyyoungboysmayevendon’tseethosegirlswhohewillmarryandfinallymarryshe。Itisthecommonthinghappenedtoalmosteveryone‘smarriage。Soeveryonethinkisjustbethat，andnooneopposedit，buttherestillsomeyouthwhofellinlovefreely，anddon’tobeytheirparents’wish。ButmanyofthemfinallyfailedlikeLiangshanboandZhuyingtai。Ithinkparentsshouldjustgiveadvicestotheirchildrennotarrangemarriagefortheirchildren。Afterall，thefuturelifeistheirchildren’snottheirs。
　　Firstofall，marriageisanimportantthingofeveryone’slife，itshouldbedecidedbyoneselfnotothersevenone’sparents。Parentsshouldonlygiveadvicetotheirchildren。
　　Secondly，oneknowwellwhattheywantthanone’sparents。Loveisfeelingthatfeltbyone。Onlyoneknowwhoisherorhistruelove。Heshouldbegivetherightstochoosehisrightpartnernototherschooseforsheorhe。
　　Thoughparentsarrangemarriagefortheirchildalsohavesomeadvantages，liketheyhavesomeexperienceinmarriageandalsotheyknowtheychildrenverywellandthereforeknowwhoisthebestchoicefortheirchildren，andwhat’smore，parentsarealllovetheirandwillconsidereveryaspectsforthem。Sothiskindofmarriagemayalsohavesomeadvantage，butiftheboysofgirlsdon’tloveeachotherandinthefuturemarriagelife，they’llhavemuchtroubleorevenworsetheyfinallyhavetoporce。SoIstillthinkparentsshouldnotarrangefortheirchildren。