Predestination manythingsinthisworldfindneitherananswernoraproperexplanation。forexample,whyshouldtwobecomeacoupleamongthebillionsofpeopleonearth?whydonttheyloveeachothereventhoughtheylivetogethereveryday,andyetoneofthemfallsinlovewithsomeoneelseatthefirstsight?whydothemembersofafamilyquarreldailybutstillstayunhappilytogether?whycanttheygetmarriedinspiteofthefactthattheyareaperfectmatchtoeachother?whyshouldonetoilsomuchfortheother?whyshouldtheloveinfatuatedalwaysbedesertedbytheheartless?。。。。。 peopleremainpuzzledinspiteoftheirgreatefforttounderstandtheendlessquestions,sotheyinventedtheallembracingwordpredestination。inordertobemoreprecise,differentcombinationswerederivedfromit:lovepredestination,sinfulpredestination,evilpredestination,andkindpredestinationetc。,hencewehavethesayingslike:predestinationwilldefinitelybringyoutogetherdespitethegreatdistancewhilewithoutpredestination,youllneverknoweachothereventhoughyouarestandingfacttofaceadistantcoupleistiedupwiththethreadofpredestinationandeventhephrasesandexpressionslikethegodofmarriage,predestinationwithoutluck,luckwithoutpredestination,comingacrosseachotherisakindofpredestination,enemiesareboundtomeetonanarrowroad,theyshallnotmarryeachotherunlesstheyarepredestinedlovers。ifpeoplestillcannotfindanswers,theyturntoreincarnationforhelp。lindaiyuisalwaysintearsjustforrepayingforthewaterjiabaoyuhadgivenherwhenshewasaplantinherpreviouslifeinadreamoftheredmansions。 infact,thesocalledpredestinationisoftenakindofcoincidenceorchanceencounter,evenakindofaccident。ifyoudontmeetthisperson,youllsurelymeetsomeoneelse。butpeopleinsistonaddingsomecolorsofemotionsorsuperstition,thusgeneratingvariousreligiousfactions,themaintheoriesofwhicharenomorethanthatofreincarnation,heavenandhellandtheeverlastingsouletc。 butdoesanyoneknowanythingabouthispreviouslifeorhisafterlife?whatcouldhedoevenifheknewthem?ifhecantgraspthepresentlife,whatsthebenefitofcommentingonthevisionaryafterlife?givinguptodayisthesameasgivinguptomorrow,fortheyarecloselyconnected。howabsurditistoworklikethehorseorcattleinthepresentlifeinordertobeaboveothersinthenextlife。 haveyoueverseenemperorqinshihuangreincarnate?haveyoueverheardofemperorwudiofthehandynastygoingintoanotherlife?whereisnowmonkxuanzangofthetangdynasty(whatweknowisthebigwildgoosepagoda)?whereisthemonkeyking(theflowerandfruitmountaindoesexist,though)?andwherecanwefindthosegreatemperorssuchasyao,shunyuandtheinfluentialphilosopherslikeconfucius,laoziandzhuangzi? howmanyheavensdowefind?aretheyalsopidedintotheorientalandtheoccidentalworld?isgodachineseorwesterner?whichisthegreatestreligionamongbuddhism,daoism,christianity,catholicityandislamism?allreligionsadvocatedoinggooddeedsandnotkilling,butwhydotheykeepcontendingagainsteachother,evenfightingandkillingamongthemselves?istheparadisethesameoneinallreligions?theresonlyonesuninthesky,andthereshouldbeonlyoneemperorinacountry,butdoallreligionsbelieveinthesamegod,ordotheyhavedifferentgodsoftheirown?ifallofusexpectedgodshelp,wouldntgodbetoobusyandtootired? doesgodrespectscience?ifnot,whydoesheallowcomputersandtelecommunicationstorunrampant?ifitisgodwhocreatedhumanbeings,thendoesnthefeeloutofcontrolofwhatthehumanbeingaredoingnow(thenuclearweaponsandbiochemicalweapons,etc。)? wehumanbeingshaveanorigin,andisitthesamewithgod?doesgodgetmarried?isgodhereditary,orisitthesameeverlastingone? wehaveallthosequestionsbutwhocananswerthem?。 goodwillneedsustotreasureandfutureneedsustocreate。thereisnosavior,norgoddessofmercywhooncesavedpeopleinthepastbutcannotdoanythingtohelpthepeopleatthepresent。theworldisdevelopingtoofast。 peoplehavetoworktogetherandassociatewitheachother。talkingaboutpredestination,itsjustakindofexplanationaboutwhathashappened,andimafraidnobodycanpredictitbeforehand。fromancienttimestillthe1980s,oncegettingmarried,thecouplehadtosticktoeachotherfortheirwholelife。canwesayitisbecauseoftheirlifelongpredestination?itisjustbecauseofthemarriagesystem。inthewesterncountries,lifelongmarriageisrare。canwesa yitisbecausetheirpredestinationmakesitso?itisactuallytheresultofhumannature。thecoloroflovecouldbeattachedtopredestination,butnotthecolorofsuperstition。